#305554 - 2009-12-07 18:52:11
Re: Daily Lift by Rabbi Zelig Pliskin
[Re: dgrimm60]
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Yes dgrimm, like the Bible says, the Breathe is life.
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#305751 - 2009-12-08 11:52:50
Re: Daily Lift by Rabbi Zelig Pliskin
[Re: pkrause]
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Advance Your Thinking
"How do I change the focus of my brain?" is a common question that people ask. "I tend to think of the negative. I worry a lot. My brain focuses way too much on thoughts that aren't conducive to happiness. How can I stop thinking about what I don't want to think about?"
A powerful tool that will help your brain move to the type of thoughts that you wish for is to tell it: "NEXT!" Then your brain will joyfully move on to another picture, idea, song, series of words, thoughts, imaginary scenes, visualizations, and anything else that brains like to do. Your brain can choose from an enormous amount of material that it already has stored in its immense library.
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"Ask not what your Country can do for you, ask what you can do for your Country" - President John F. Kennedy
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#306075 - 2009-12-09 06:05:26
Re: Daily Lift by Rabbi Zelig Pliskin
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Just Once
There are many positive and beneficial things that we know we should do, but we may feel that continuing to do them will be too difficult. "How can I keep being this way all the time?" we ask ourselves.
Telling ourselves, "Just once," can help us start. After we do something positive once, we begin to build up momentum; it becomes easier than we had assumed to keep doing the positive action more frequently.
Doing a worthwhile action "just once" doesn't seem so daunting. The next time it comes up, say you'll do it "just once" again. Even if it truly is difficult, since we only have to motivate ourselves "just once," right now, we can build up our level of inspiration and motivation.
Think of something that you would want to do but also consider difficult to repeat. At the next opportunity, start by taking action "just once." If you're having difficulty thinking of something to do "just once," keep thinking until you find an area to apply the power of "Just once."
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#306320 - 2009-12-10 06:14:00
Re: Daily Lift by Rabbi Zelig Pliskin
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Just Pause
Being impulsive causes many mistakes and errors. Doing things impulsively will cause loss, damage, and harm. Saying things impulsively will cause you to say things better left unsaid. Thinking before you speak will enable you to think of the best way to say something. Thinking before you take action will enable you to consider whether you should do something, and how to do it if you should.
The two words that will remind you to stop and think are, "Just pause." As you pause, think to yourself, "What is the wisest thing for me to say and do now?"
Practice building the association in your mind between, "Just pause," and, "What is the wisest thing for me to say and do now?" How do you build the association? It's quite easy. You just repeat these two sentences together a number of times. Repeat them with an upbeat tone of voice, or sing them with your own tune. Enjoy the process. This way you will access positive feelings when you recall this association in "real life."
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#306747 - 2009-12-11 10:13:39
Re: Daily Lift by Rabbi Zelig Pliskin
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Just Say It
Imagine feeling uncomfortable about saying something important, valuable, or beneficial, even when you know it would be best to say it. You should tell yourself, "Just say it." Think of a role model who is able to "just say it" at the right time. It might help you to imagine being that person to get yourself to "just say it."
If you have a valid reason for not saying something, don't say it. If you feel that it would be wrong to say something, don't say it. If your words will cause unnecessary distress, don't say them.
Some people find it difficult to convey positive feedback and praise. They can say to themselves, "Just say it."
Some people are not as outgoing and outspoken as they would like to be. They should tell themselves, "Just say it."
The more you say what you should say, the easier it will become for you to "just say it."
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